Why it's important to create & hold open space in our personal & intimate relationships
- James Harris
- Oct 19, 2019
- 3 min read
Updated: Jul 14, 2021
Has anyone ever wanted to create relationships where you want to experience, evolve, grow, learn, understand and create & hold space for them that both of can be authentic and free with our communication, challenges and needs on a daily basis ?..... if so then you're not alone because that has been my biggest struggle for a long time and I'm not afraid to be vulnerable with my true self. Sometimes when i tell people that I'm close to that I'm open minded when it comes to my personal & intimate relationships sometimes they either freak out & try to change my perspective & to be honest with you all I've created boundaries with myself where i hold space for people who have a different perspective than i do but i also listen and appreciate their own perspective that i don't agree with. When i hold space for people who have a different perspective than i do we allow each other to understand each other and learn different things from each other.... and sometimes if someone tries to change your perspective it's important to stand your ground and stick to what you truly believe but also hold space for someone to do the same because we're human. We argue, disagree, and occasionally challenge each other since those instincts are embedded in our consciousness as a species but we can also hold space for people to be on the same page and appreciate each other fully and get our needs meet in a beautifully healthy way.
Creating & holding open space for people in our personal & intimate relationships can be so rewarding and so challenging also and sometimes it can be easier said than done because we can't please everyone but there's also some people that'll gravitate towards other people than others and that alone people can have personal & intimate relationships where they can be truly free and open to be themselves without feeling judged by being called a slut, a weirdo or any derogatory term out there & since I'm passionate about conscious human evolution on a daily basis i want to share a few reasons why it's important to create & hold open space in our personal intimate relationships.
We allow people to embrace themselves truly
When we start to create a open and secure space for people to truly be comfortable with themselves without making them feeling judged we allow them to truly embrace their true divine femininity and masculinity in a way that helps them to truly evolve beautifully.
We allow ourselves to experience & learn something new
When we allow people to truly express and share their perspectives that are different from our own without changing & disrespecting each others experiences and perspectives then we can learn something new that we haven't thought of before.
We allow ourselves to experience new possibilities
When we truly allow ourselves to be truly authentic, open and sincere each other and create & hold open space for us to do that without us feeling judged or criticized then we allow the possibilities of new experiences to enter in our daily lives that can help enrich and raise our vibration.
I truly appreciate all of you have read this article & that are part of the blissful heroes community and feel free to share this article with anyone that can resonate with this and sending you all so much continued & unlimited abundance and appreciation with your dreams & health goals on a daily basis, Namaste 🙏🏾☮️☯️🌈🌎💕✨💯.
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